They Believe The Lie Because They Want To
Have you ever been in a situation where you didn't know someone, but they already have a narrative about you? People who believe lies about you without being around you or even having any context. That is because they want to believe the lie. They want to demonize you; they have nothing better to do with their lives. They would prefer to fill their minds up with stories and hate, about someone they have never met or barely know. Even when they met you and they don't see those qualities in you, they want to assign them to you. They do this because they can’t assign the qualities to themselves, they can’t look in the mirror. The most arrogant people I have met, have perceived me as arrogant because I didn't want to spend time with them. This guy once accused me of being arrogant from a story he heard from his friend. His friend forgot to mention, I turned him down. His friend should have mentioned how he was a total creep and I literally had to escape his box of an apartment. His friend should have told him how he performed a disgusting dance in order to try and corrupt my innocent mind, LMFAO.
This person that held this secret to who I was, ended up being the very thing he swear I was. He was casually rude and he was nothing special himself. So when I finally cast my judgment upon him for being rude and lame, it was accurate and based on his actions. I had heard things about him prior to meeting him, but I never allowed those things to interfere with how I interacted with him, nor did the idea of him stay with me for long. It's people like this with low IQs that should be judged heavily. You would think as an adult he would come to his own conclusion based on my actions. But this is not someone that thinks with a brain clearly. All I could do was laugh and then eventually block him. I actually thought about forgiving the situation because in hindsight it wasn’t a huge deal, but I can't have people who don’t think for themselves around me, we are too old for that.
Then you have the people who make up stories about you. They run with a lie in their head to justify their own actions. I remember being in college and I had fallen out with this one girl. I could clearly see she was depressed, so I was kind to her. Our issue was small and nothing to really dwell on. When we fell out the same girl went around telling people, I had told a friend of mine not to be friends with her. What kind of middle school drama was this fool trying to conjure up? I definitely made the right choice moving her out of my way, look at the way she thought. Firstly, it was childish because I would never do something like that. Secondly, I didn't have to tell my so-called friend to stop being friends with her. The minute I expressed to my friend that I no longer was on friendly terms with this girl, my friend had so much to say about her. My friend expressed her negative experiences with this very girl that was seeking a friendship with her. My friend did not mention her issues with this girl because of me. So here this girl was chasing someone who didn't even like her while portraying me in a bad light. It is exhausting allowing dunces in your space. I don't wanna be bored to death with intense stupidity.
Mary