Twin Flame
You don’t have a twin flame. Stop lying to yourself, what you have is a narcissist or toxic person gaslighting the hell out of you. A lot of people dream about having this so-called twin flame or special mate, and it only leads to allowing shitty behavior being tolerated in terrible relationships. It seems that push and pull relationship style is in demand. You wanna get in a fight with him/her, then run off and they chase you for years? You want him to go have ten babies on you, just for him to magically find his way back to you? Do you crave heartbreak that stops your sleep pattern? I am sure some of you do. Stop being indoctrinated into complete nonsense and choose a healthy relationship today. I hear you, I once believed in that horse shit too.
I am not saying there are no love stories that are so pure and fairytale-like, I am saying it's not the guy that is knocking your head between the walls. It's not the girl that just can't stop cheating. They are not trying to find themselves; they just don’t like you. At some point, you will have to put on your big boy/girl pants and grasp your reality. I want everyone to have a love that is befitting for them, but I am afraid to say most of the time people use the words Twin Flame and inflate its meaning. Completely change its meaning and sadly apply it to themselves when it does not make sense.
If you keep practicing escapism with those spiritual terms, you can easily make yourself a victim of love. The heartbreak you're feeling and your discomfort is not a test from the universe. The majority of us are not going to experience love like that, because it's unrealistic and for movies. I promise you not everybody is having telepathy conversations with a lover they have not met yet, you might need therapy. I'm aware these things can occur. I personally think love should be easygoing and light. The minute a relationship takes too much from me and is uncomfortable I will leave. I'm not saying they're no ups and downs in relationships, but I am saying you are not on some mission to fix your better half that is a demon. It is not your job to fix anybody, don’t waste your time teaching love to someone that does not understand it. Why would your better half even be someone evil? I'm really hoping more people understand this and come to terms with it. So, they don't block themselves from actually finding a true partner.
Mary