Making Me feel Unsafe
Imagine making someone feel unsafe, yet you still demand that they be with you and give you their time. If you appreciate a person's presence, make it known. Oftentimes, too many people mistreat the one they claim to care about. But I'm a firm believer that you don't mistreat people or things you care about or value. Once the victim removes themselves from you, suddenly there's an uproar and fight to regain their presence. What a diabolical irritation to deal with. To me the predators are not fighting because they value you; they're fighting because they will miss having a waste-taker. This is my perspective on issues like these.
It takes immense effort to cut ties, especially when your emotions are solid. But once that decision is made, the emotions restraining you are removed. Personally, I won't live with conflicting feelings: loving someone while enduring mistreatment. I don't engage in push-and-pull dynamics; if pushed, I fall. Some feel like they can't leave due to a few kind acts. But consider this, "How often have you hurt or made negative jokes about someone you care for, altering their perception of you?" You likely don't have many experiences like that because it's not what you'd do if you genuinely cared about someone.
Certain people can perform kind acts to balance out their wicked deeds. And that is why you are confused because you are still looking at the good they did, well … performed. Either physically or emotionally. But good and evil cannot mix. It is easy for a bad person or evil person to do good to mask themselves, but it is extremely hard for a good person to commit wicked deeds. Assess your reality wisely. Don't confine yourself due to a few good gestures. You wouldn’t even be questioning things so hard if the experience was breathtaking. Good is good, bad is bad. Safety is crucial; feeling unsafe indicates being with the wrong person, whether friends, family, lovers, or animals – the principle remains the same.
Isaiah 5:20 says, "Woe to those who call evil good and good evil, who put darkness for light and light for darkness, who put bitter for sweet and sweet for bitter"
Mary